You
can attract love, quite powerfully, by adjusting certain ways of how you
behave, speak, think, look and feel about yourself. Each of those manners of
being are actually calibrated by your frequency: How you are, at this moment,
is a clear reflection of who you are.
It is based on what you yourself put out, and then, what your frequency brings
to the table, in kind. Nothing of great value will reach your desired frequency
level if your mind, your heart and your spirit are not in gear: open,
approachable and receptive. These three aptitudes are not impossible to attain.
You don’t have to be born with them; you can cultivate them.
This
post is about attracting the love of a potential mate---a life partner. But
that doesn’t mean you won’t attract all kinds of love. As the Beatles’ song
goes, “The love you take is equal to the love you make”.
A
heightened frequency will spark the love vibration. Love and an elevated
frequency reside at the same life energy level. As you might already know, the
first rule of thumb of raising your frequency is to put yourself in
order---beginning with your body. A clean, tidy appearance is indicative of the
care you put forth for yourself. Care about your clothes, how they look on you
and that they are clean and ironed, too. Does all this raise your frequency? Of
course it does. If you’re not focused on looking good, you’re not going to feel
as good as you could. You won’t feel right---spry, sharp, crispy!---with a sagging frequency. If your body is out of shape,
get it in shape; don’t waste time. Lose those extra pounds. Get a new hair
style if it’s straggly and unattractive.
Ladies
and gentlemen: Primp. Do your very best to look your very best.
Don’t
just look nice when going out or meeting with friends or a date. In
order to keep your frequency at high levels, you’ve got to look good all the time. Whether you’re at home alone or
living with others, make it a point to be clean, presentable and fresh. Never
look sloppy. Don’t make your frequency plummet; keep it high.
Your
exterior is important, of course. But your interior might be even more so. Remember your heart,
mind and spirit? They take center stage in the realm of “linking
magnetism”. Your looks and appearance will only take you so far, though they do
function as the initial enticement. The biggie is the real you---inside. To attract the kind of person you hope to magnetize to you, you’ve got to be
pretty magnetic yourself.
You’ll
have to nurture ---really nurture---your
heart, mind and spirit.
To
attract love, you’ve got to be open---not just when you meet someone, but all the time, whether you’re by yourself
or not. Use your senses to sensitize yourself. Get out into Nature, even if
it’s a park or a garden. Look, smell, feel the leaves, flowers, trees. Hug a
tree. I do. Rather
than feeling embarrassed, you might actually make others want to do the same;
that has actually been my experience. Listen to the birds, bullfrogs, crickets,
squirrels. Take in deep breaths. Be in
the experience. Take it all into your being. Merge with it. The more often
you do this,
the
more love you will magnetize to yourself. It is true.
Romance
yourself. Listen to music---dance, sway, hum, sing---be alive.
Do
what makes you feel romantic. Light candles when you eat, make a toast to
yourself, play music in the background. Stir the love inside you. Show
love and care and attention to yourself. Take yourself out on a date. Go to a
movie, a restaurant or a concert---alone….yet
not alone, at all. Keep in mind that you are already "the whole package".
You
will develop a loving, nurturing and nourishing relationship with yourself,
when you interact with your heart and your spirit. Follow the whims of your
spirit. Would your spirit rather clean house today…..or go on a hike in the
mountains, or take a walk on the beach? If you can forego the housecleaning for
a time, when spirit doesn’t want to, then listen
to your spirit. Spirit is the
romantic in you. Be with yourself the same way you would be with your partner.
Fall in love with yourself. I am not referring to being sappy. I am referring
to your loving yourself at a very high frequency, with depth, meaning,
intensity and power. Taking such
measures, as I’ve pointed out above, will naturally
put you very much in tune with yourself, as long as you are sincere and
dedicated to your plan for an enriching life.
Caveat:
Be sure not to focus on “attracting a
mate”. That is not your ultimate goal, in the big scheme of things. The “big scheme of things” is your becoming a
more developed, enhanced, human being---one who attracts not only love, but
greater beauty, power and wisdom.
You
will become a love magnet---if you
are not one, already! Hold onto your power by not wishing, hoping expecting.
Expect nothing, other than to become the best that you can be. Allow the
Universe to bring you the mate who will be the
right one for you. For this to happen, becoming a “love magnet” is a
fantastic way for you to align yourself with the Universe. Let that special magnetic person come to you of his or
her own will---or destiny. You just
focus on you, and let the magic come,
of its own accord.
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Your husband really is the luckiest man alive. Diana YOU are so beautiful in every way, how could anybody not want want to become a beautiful love magnet like you. Your blog positively vibrates. THANK YOU
ReplyDeleteThank you, thank you! Looks to me like YOU are coming from a pretty high-vibrating place yourself! God bless.
DeleteNo, I am not in a very high vibrating place myself, although I am trying to be. I am divorcing my unfaithful husband. God bless you.
DeleteKeep working at it. You really need to keep your frequency up, particularly in down times;that's when life can really snowball. Please try to be strong and pull yourself out of the malaise---which I do completely understand. I went through the same thing, the first time around. Please don't sabotage yourself. This is happening because it is meant to; you have probably outgrown him and the Universe is pointing you toward a higher path to take.. The toughest times tend to take us to our greatest rewards. If he's not for you anymore, then someone A LOT BETTER is waiting for you. TRUST.
DeleteThank you for your kind words. I wish all people were as thoughtful, faithful, honest and clean living like you. I am middle aged, have three kids and an elderly mother to support on hardly an income, I doubt anybody is going to be interested in me, but thank you for your positive words. You must be so thankful that you met this amazing man you share so much love with. You are beautiful, he is a very lucky man and your kids have an amazing example a loving relationship.
ReplyDeleteThank you, again for your kind and loving words. I am human, and I do have my own ups and downs, as well. It's not what happens to us, but how we handle ourselves and our lives, in the process. Do we give up and throw in the towel? Or do we take the bull by the horns and become resolute about making things work the way we want them to work. It looks to me that you are cheating yourself by "doubting that no one would be interested in you". Where did you get that idea? You need to rise a lot higher above mainstream "negative" thinking. Yes, this is difficult, but it is not impossible to manage OR to free yourself from your burdens---children, mother, cheating husband............... Ask yourself: How much do you truly want to help yourself? Do you see life, in general, as drudgery? Do you think you can pull yourself out of it? Can you? YES, I know you can. But do you want to? How do you feel when you read my post about "becoming a love magnet?" Does that resonate with you, at all? You might just need to go through the process of mourning your separation and the situations in which you find yourself. Right now, it doesn't seem as though you are ready to give yourself the boost you need. If that is the case, then that is fine if that is your choice. I pray that you will soon come to see a much greater possibility that is waiting for you, once you step up to the plate. God bless you and try to keep your spirits up----as well as your frequency. Take one day at a time; try, somehow, to enjoy today. Be thankful for all of your blessings. Namaste.
DeleteNamaste and thank you Diana
ReplyDeleteMy pleasure.
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